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Developing and Maintaining a healthy Romantic Relationship

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A little part of you still loves all of them that you've been in love with your life. You think you always will. That doesn't mean you want to try and rekindle what you had, though, because you know it most likely wouldn't work. There were too many wrongs that you can't overlook. Love is beautiful, but a relationship is much more than just love. Sometimes, love isn't enough. It's something that most of us don't want to admit.   When you love someone so much, you want to work things out and never lose what you have. But there are some things even love can't overlook. Of course, therapy is always a great option when you and your partner are struggling. Sometimes the therapy comes too late, though, and sometimes you and your partner just don't fit each other the way you want to. If you're in an abusive or unsafe dynamic, love isn't enough. Non-negotiable. Love will never be enough without having healthy relationship practices. Honesty an...

Is it possible to find love on social media?

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Do you think you can find your one and the "only" in social networking sites? Different people have different misconceptions about the perfect place to find true love. Some believe that it depends on a person’s ideas on love matters,others feel it depend on the ideal partner you're looking for, while others believe that you can find love anywhere.  My question is, do you believe that a person can find a soulmate on these social networking sites? I’ll give a scenario on a relationship developed on social media and moved to the next level. From a recent post on Tuko News, a particular lady who was said to be from Nigeria amazed citizens after conducting a wedding ceremony in which a framed photo of him represented the groom. It is said that the two met on Facebook, and after a series of conversations, the two agreed to do a wedding. The man sent money for the ceremony, sent his picture, and claimed that he would be occupied working abroad.  This story is quite weird, but ye...

Should You Engage in a Relationship While in College?

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Love is a beautiful thing . People fall in love in very mysterious ways, especially in colleges. While it took me a couple of months to master all the lecture halls in the university, it only took two weeks for my friend to find a boyfriend. You might be wondering but, yes, it was that fast. People would think that I have a weakness in connecting with others, but I prefer taking my time to know people well. To know a person well, you need to take your time, which cannot happen within a week. Being in college means you have the freedom to try things you couldn't do at home. No one is there to control you on the decisions you make. Many young boys and girls try new things like dating, partying, drinking, late nights outs, or even creating "squads."  While a campus student has many challenges, having a healthy relationship is one of the greatest. Most college relationships do not last. Some last as long as one semester, others last longer but don't go past graduation, wh...

Cell phones Could be Ruining your Relationship

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  How do cell phones ruin good relationships? The use of cell phones has increased rapidly, and it is noticeable that some good relationships are not working out well. It is possible to find a person so engaged with the phone that they don’t have time to talk to the person they are with at a particular time. Giving attention to the mobile phone while ignoring someone you are with could be a significant turn-off. A person may keep wondering why they are in that place. The act of being too engaged to the phone is referred to as “ phubbing .” Compulsive use phones can damage relationships and other real-life activities, including the work environment, and threaten addiction. Usually, when one uses a phone while you are supposed to meet or talk about important matters, you will feel less important, and you might even get angered. If their behaviors are not changed, you might start developing some negative emotions towards a person; this could lead to losing interest in the relationship...

How to Keep Your Relationship Strong and Healthy.

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 You want to have a happy and a healthy relationship? Here are some of the things you need to know and practice. There are various kinds of love, however, many people focus on romantic relationships that involve love with their partners. In the present days, we are witnessing relationships succumb and others leading to depression or even more, extreme hatred once the goals are not achieved. Most of the relationships that fail are as a result of lack of direction, other times you will find people are in relationships not because of love but for emotional, financial or physical dependency. You find most of the relationships end once the benefits cease to be there.  People should pause and ask themselves what is it they are doing wrong so as to evaluate the strategies that can help improve their relationships. Below are some of the guidelines to help you develop and maintain healthy relationships. Have a look. 10 Tips for Healthy Relationships 1. Have realistic expectations Yo...

Who is Your Idea Woman?

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Join me, l et us explore what it sounds like have a dream woman.  Is your ideal woman your dream love? My Dream Love In the midst of the world lies beautiful souls with awesome perspection of love. But the one chosen is still beautiful in the midst of millions. She is neither white nor dark; chocolate is her complexion. She has got big eyes and velvety lashes. Her cherry sweet silky lips, positively drills with love anytime she speaks,My thoughts" whenever you hear the love her illusion of happy life triumps, I conceived, that Smiling be part of her, always displaying her set of dazzling hallo white teeth not to forget her saccharine voice. So soothing and sweet to listen to. Her curly hair is a glorious tumble of obsidian black. She has a sculpted figure which is twine thin. Uphold full confidence in her and her alone leave no  sorrow behind your smile.  May your dream love mantain love beyond your anger and be the reason behind your silence. Her love by nature always pu...

Importance of Healthy Employer-Employee Relations

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  Employer-employee relationship Employer-employee relations refers to the relationship between the employers and their employees in an organization. With good interpersonal communication in an organization, there is a guarantee of a good working environment. These relations influence satisfaction and how employees are engaged in their work. The main goal of the employer-employee relations strategy is to boost relationships and collaborations in the working environment. Importance of employer-employee relationship Organizations with good relations experience various benefits. These companies can engage with their workers, motivate them when necessary, understand their needs, and know how to maintain their employees. Here are a few benefits of an excellent employer-employee relationship: Higher engagement rates An organization having a culture where it asks people about their experience in the workplace is a positive move. When employees feel their voice is heard at work will feel...