Developing and Maintaining a healthy Romantic Relationship
A little part of you still loves all of them that you've been in love with your life. You think you always will. That doesn't mean you want to try and rekindle what you had, though, because you know it most likely wouldn't work. There were too many wrongs that you can't overlook. Love is beautiful, but a relationship is much more than just love. Sometimes, love isn't enough. It's something that most of us don't want to admit.
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When
you love someone so much, you want to work things out and never lose what you
have. But there are some things even love can't overlook. Of course, therapy is
always a great option when you and your partner are struggling. Sometimes the
therapy comes too late, though, and sometimes you and your partner just don't
fit each other the way you want to. If you're in an abusive or unsafe dynamic,
love isn't enough. Non-negotiable.
Love will never be enough without having healthy relationship practices. Honesty and communication are the primary
keys to a healthy relationship. In colleges for instance, relationships
have different levels and are among the most dangerous. They need careful
attention because if not handled with care, they can damage one's future.
In
the absence of total trust lies real distress—for instance, a long-distance
relationship, i.e., where the guy is dating from another campus. You will find
that most of them do not work for long because the partners or one of them is
not willing to commit to their goals. You can also find communication becomes a
barrier to most of these types of relationships.
Cases of friends with benefits have
increased; this is a relationship where both the guy and the lady benefit
intimately, simply, what brings them together mostly are the intimacy benefits.
In colleges, you will find most people's goals of dating are not well
established; some date for love, others out of peer pressure, andothers
for fun, while others date for money or gifts. People want different things in
the long run. There are plenty of relationships where two people know they
don't want the same things long-term, but it's ok because their relationship is
"for now." It's just for fun. It's harmless, but it can have a
tremendous negative impact on the life of a student.
In
several relationships, many young people have been left stranded, lacking words
for their affections. This has been triggered by their immense habits of loving
away from the norms. Relationships have failed since the advice offered is no longer
considered spearheading sanctity and purity amongst the youths.
Many relationships have ended in terrible
breakups and fears since many youths have landed themselves into depression and
suicide for engaging in unhealthy relationships. You shouldn't find
relationships as tiring. When you start losing count of the many calls you make
that are unanswered, you should pause and think about yourself. The many
messages you type but never sent portray your concern. Focus on being productive instead, do what is
right, and learn to listen to your instincts.
Also, remember that you don't have to meet
in your free time or free up your time for your relationship; always have time
for your partner. Hate goodbyes, you should be afraid of your partner's
memories. Unlike tears in your eyes, you must hate yourself if only you knew
how much you're needed. Know your value to value your partner's. It's awful to
lose someone you once loved. Relationships are offspring of love.
Everyone's relationship style is different.
Conventional, direct relationships don't work for everyone, nor does it have
to. We all have different needs that every relationship style can't always
meet. Whenever we are satisfied with our relationships, all sorts of evils keep
distance from us, and True love sprouts from principles of healthy
relationships.
This is amazing. A true reflection of the contemporary society we live in
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